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MY DELENA/STELENA THOUGHTS ON THE FINALE
I posted my thoughts about this popular topic on Twitter after someone posted their thoughts on why Elena is going to pick Stefan in the finale. By popular demand, I decided to bring all my thoughts together and post them here. Two people in particular I want to give a shout out too pllrocks1 and sanslyde and they are both on Twitter. =)
My thoughts:
I just read a very compelling argument as to why someone thinks that Elena will pick Stefan in the finale and not Damon. And while I agree that she believes she would pick Stefan because she needs security and that he supposedly will be around and not lash out when she needs someone I don’t agree that for a real relationship, yes, security is important, but that’s it? Security? A real, vibrant, passionate relationship is hard work. Its anger, hate, passion, security, trust, love, its EVERYTHING! The good and the bad. People think it’s leading to Stefan because in the last episode when Elena said she doesn’t have anyone, Stefan said you will have me. Let’s ignore the fact that in mist of Alaric’s death he took advantage to play himself up, for Elena to pick Stefan off security alone, where is the passion? Keeping her on her toes? Not only that BUT, I resent the fact that people think that Damon will never be security for Elena. Damon loves with everything inside of him. He has been there with Elena. He STAYED! When Stefan went off, yes, I know, to save his brother, with Klaus, Damon was there. Even when Stefan came back, he pushed Elena away. Damon loves Elena. He truly loves her and he even said, “I will never leave you again.” She can trust him. Count on him. Yes, Damon is rash, he does things without thinking, but in the end, his entire being is Elena. They may hurt each other, but in the end, to say that Stefan is Elena’s security when he hasn’t been there and Damon has and to give Damon no credit what so ever not only is wrong but makes the argument as to why Elena will choose Stefan and not Damon invalid. If Damon wasn’t someone she wanted, she would have never fallen in love with him.
Now, to give this person credit, she does believe that Elena will tell both brothers that she loves them HOWEVER, if Elena didn’t find just a little bit of security with Damon, if she didn’t truly believe that she could be with him and be safe and loved, she would have never fallen in love with him in the first place. And let me point out it was involuntary which makes it that much more special because subconsciously, she fell in love with him. Without thinking, without wanting to, she trusted him. She didn’t have to think about it. It’s not rationale, it’s not because he’s safe, but it’s because of how she feels with him. I almost feel like when Elena was talking to Matt and she said that she was with Stefan partly because he couldn’t die and a part of her felt secure, it was a conscious thought on her part. With Damon, it wasn’t supposed to happen. She wasn’t supposed to fall in love and DESPITE of it, she did fall in love. Damon is secure because no matter what, Elena will come first. He has saved her multiple times. He has been there.
My god, in 2x08 he sacrificed his own happiness for the happiness of his brother and the woman he loves. He didn’t think he could make her happy, make her secure, so he gave up his happiness so Stefan and Elena can be together. So to not give Damon his credit doesn’t make the argument wrong, but it makes it completely one-sided and it just ignorance to completely ignore the security that Damon has brought Elena. He has brought her security but on top of that, he has brought her himself. Damon has fallen in love with Elena and everything that she is and vice-versa. Elena started falling in love with Damon during his dark times. When the hate consumed him. She started falling in love with Damon in his darkest time where with Stefan; she fell in love with the man he tried to be. The persona of the darkness inside of him. So for me, since the beginning, Elena has known EXACTLY who Damon was since the beginning and as the seasons go on more layers keep getting pulled back. With Stefan, she fell in love with the facade and now seeing the darkness, she fought for him yes, but there was still that denial that he could never be that dark, that it’s not HER Stefan. So since the beginning, SE started off as a lie.
But again, before I go off into that rant, lol, again, I just wanted to get out the fact that Damon has been Elena’s security in more ways than one. When Stefan wasn’t there, Damon always was. Even in the first two seasons, Damon has been there even when she was with Stefan, so to say that she will pick Stefan based on security alone, again, just pure ignorance to me and it completely disregards everything Damon has done for her. She might pick Stefan, she might not. She might pick Damon, she might not. But the argument, to me at least, is not completely valid when you completely ignore everything that Damon has done and the way he has always been there for Elena. But again, that’s just me.
Nancy Forner 
Fans of The Vampire Diaries are still talking about last week’s epic Damon and Elena kiss and the motel ogling scene that started it off — which, regardless of whether they’re Team Delena or Team Stelena, they had to admit was hot. “I can’t speak for everybody else in this world, but when we were talking about what the scene needed to be in the writer’s room, we’ve all had those moments where you end up laying in bed in high school with a guy or a girl that you like, and you don’t know what’s gonna happen, you don’t know what it means, but all you know is that you’re infinitely aware of their proximity to you and every single move that they’re making and every single breath that’s being breathed between the two of you. We wanted that moment to be that experience,” exec producer Julie Plec tells EW. “When we talked to [director] Chris Grismer, we just said, ‘Milk every single beat out of this that you can. It’s so much about what’s not being said. It’s so much about them just lying next to each other, the beauty and intimacy and sexual chemistry of just being near each other is what needs to be telling the story here. So take as long as you want, and shoot it as much as you want, and we’ll put it together from there.’ They definitely gave us everything we needed.”
By the end of the episode, Elena had pulled back from Damon, even though the audience (along with Jeremy) had heard ghost Rose’s passionate plea for why she should choose Damon. So where does that leave us? With some hope for those rooting for Stefan. “Stefan was very, very gracious to encourage her to go on this road trip with Damon. His point of view, as he expressed to Alaric, is that all this work that I’ve done to get myself to be worthy of her and how much I care for her doesn’t matter if she has feelings for someone else. He’s allowing that room for her to explore that, which is a fairly magnanimous gesture for a dude, truthfully,” Plec says. “Elena, still being very confused about her feelings for Damon — which obviously exist, it’s just how does she want to define them — gets schooled by Caroline, who is proudly wearing her Team Stefan T-shirt at the beginning of this episode, metaphorically speaking. She’s basically saying, ‘You’re supposed to be exploring, so explore both sides. You and Stefan, in my opinion, are meant to be. So make sure that you explore him, too.’ That encourages Elena to reach out to Stefan and say, ‘Look, I don’t know what’s going on with us, or if anything can ever go on with us, but why don’t we give this one night a shot to just spend some time together.” (Will Stefan find out about Damon and Elena’s steamy makeout session? “Elena doesn’t keep it a secret. What gets said about it is part of the episode. It’s addressed but not addressed,” Plec says.)
The night that Stefan and Elena spend together is, of course, the Roaring ’20s Decade Dance. “Damon comes in at an unfortunately romantically inopportune moment to say, ‘Fun’s over. We’ve got a problem.’ Damon is actually, like, a double c—blocker in this episode,’ now that I think about it,” Plec laughs. “There’s two moments where Damon interrupts something romantic accidentally.” The problem has to do with last week’s big Rebesther twist, in which Esther took over Rebekah’s body to get to Alaric (or Evilaric), who fetched the white oak stake that can kill an Original. “Last year at the decade dance, we had Alaric being possessed by Klaus though a bodyswapping spell. It felt poetic to bookend this year’s decade dance with the same trick,” Plec says. “Earlier in the season, we actually talked about having Esther take the form of somebody else, whether it be Bonnie or Rebekah, before we met her in present day. And then we ditched that plan early on, and came back around to it for this episode.” She doesn’t want to say too much, but she will tease this: ”That story line takes instantly a left turn right at the beginning of the episode. So everything everybody thinks they’re gonna see is actually different.” We wouldn’t expect anything less.