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MY DELENA/STELENA THOUGHTS ON THE FINALE
I posted my thoughts about this popular topic on Twitter after someone posted their thoughts on why Elena is going to pick Stefan in the finale. By popular demand, I decided to bring all my thoughts together and post them here. Two people in particular I want to give a shout out too pllrocks1 and sanslyde and they are both on Twitter. =)
My thoughts:
I just read a very compelling argument as to why someone thinks that Elena will pick Stefan in the finale and not Damon. And while I agree that she believes she would pick Stefan because she needs security and that he supposedly will be around and not lash out when she needs someone I don’t agree that for a real relationship, yes, security is important, but that’s it? Security? A real, vibrant, passionate relationship is hard work. Its anger, hate, passion, security, trust, love, its EVERYTHING! The good and the bad. People think it’s leading to Stefan because in the last episode when Elena said she doesn’t have anyone, Stefan said you will have me. Let’s ignore the fact that in mist of Alaric’s death he took advantage to play himself up, for Elena to pick Stefan off security alone, where is the passion? Keeping her on her toes? Not only that BUT, I resent the fact that people think that Damon will never be security for Elena. Damon loves with everything inside of him. He has been there with Elena. He STAYED! When Stefan went off, yes, I know, to save his brother, with Klaus, Damon was there. Even when Stefan came back, he pushed Elena away. Damon loves Elena. He truly loves her and he even said, “I will never leave you again.” She can trust him. Count on him. Yes, Damon is rash, he does things without thinking, but in the end, his entire being is Elena. They may hurt each other, but in the end, to say that Stefan is Elena’s security when he hasn’t been there and Damon has and to give Damon no credit what so ever not only is wrong but makes the argument as to why Elena will choose Stefan and not Damon invalid. If Damon wasn’t someone she wanted, she would have never fallen in love with him.
Now, to give this person credit, she does believe that Elena will tell both brothers that she loves them HOWEVER, if Elena didn’t find just a little bit of security with Damon, if she didn’t truly believe that she could be with him and be safe and loved, she would have never fallen in love with him in the first place. And let me point out it was involuntary which makes it that much more special because subconsciously, she fell in love with him. Without thinking, without wanting to, she trusted him. She didn’t have to think about it. It’s not rationale, it’s not because he’s safe, but it’s because of how she feels with him. I almost feel like when Elena was talking to Matt and she said that she was with Stefan partly because he couldn’t die and a part of her felt secure, it was a conscious thought on her part. With Damon, it wasn’t supposed to happen. She wasn’t supposed to fall in love and DESPITE of it, she did fall in love. Damon is secure because no matter what, Elena will come first. He has saved her multiple times. He has been there.
My god, in 2x08 he sacrificed his own happiness for the happiness of his brother and the woman he loves. He didn’t think he could make her happy, make her secure, so he gave up his happiness so Stefan and Elena can be together. So to not give Damon his credit doesn’t make the argument wrong, but it makes it completely one-sided and it just ignorance to completely ignore the security that Damon has brought Elena. He has brought her security but on top of that, he has brought her himself. Damon has fallen in love with Elena and everything that she is and vice-versa. Elena started falling in love with Damon during his dark times. When the hate consumed him. She started falling in love with Damon in his darkest time where with Stefan; she fell in love with the man he tried to be. The persona of the darkness inside of him. So for me, since the beginning, Elena has known EXACTLY who Damon was since the beginning and as the seasons go on more layers keep getting pulled back. With Stefan, she fell in love with the facade and now seeing the darkness, she fought for him yes, but there was still that denial that he could never be that dark, that it’s not HER Stefan. So since the beginning, SE started off as a lie.
But again, before I go off into that rant, lol, again, I just wanted to get out the fact that Damon has been Elena’s security in more ways than one. When Stefan wasn’t there, Damon always was. Even in the first two seasons, Damon has been there even when she was with Stefan, so to say that she will pick Stefan based on security alone, again, just pure ignorance to me and it completely disregards everything Damon has done for her. She might pick Stefan, she might not. She might pick Damon, she might not. But the argument, to me at least, is not completely valid when you completely ignore everything that Damon has done and the way he has always been there for Elena. But again, that’s just me.
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